I guess my tribe isn’t a big group that hang out all together, all the time, which is what I pictured my life being like. Instead my tribe is full of individuals, who bring something different to the table. None of them like me and none of them not like me.
Month: March 2020
You are not obligated to say yes
Keywords: #writersofinstagram #writersoftwitter #liveyourlife #blogger #blog #ontheblog #ontheblogtoday #bloggersgetsocial #bloggerlife #bloggersoftwitter #newblogpost, advice, Blogger, no, relationships and friendships, saying no
The only people who get upset with you having boundaries are the people who were benefiting from it.
[i.e., benefitting from you feeling obligated to say “yes”]
https://purejoi18.wordpress.com/2020/03/18/learning-to-say-no
Although it may not seem like it at the time, a lot of our setbacks set us up for success later on
I asked my followers to share instances where rejection actually turned out to be redirection and helped them get to a better place in their lives. And I’m hoping it’ll inspire each person reading this into believing that better days are coming.
https://lifeontheup.com/2020/03/16/sometimes-rejection-is-just-redirection
Perfection results in avoidance, procrastination, poor time management, process addiction, fitting in instead of belonging, conditional self-worth, relentless management of others’ perceptions, and in general, a lack of joy, creativity, courage, compassion, fulfillment and wholehearted living
How perfectionism keeps us stuck:
- It keeps us avoiding and procrastinating: If I can’t do it perfect (and I know I probably can’t) then why should I waste my time doing it at all?
- It’s attached to shame with a constant feeling of “Not-Good-Enough-ness”
- It keeps us trying, stumbling, self-deprecating, and unfulfilled
- It keeps us hustling to manage the unwanted perceptions of others
- It’s a creativity killer
Once you know that we’re all a little bit imperfect, it’s easier to let yourself be imperfect, too
Keywords: leadership
Being vulnerable can make us terribly sad, but it can also open us up to the possibility of being terribly happy. Because once you know that we’re all a little bit imperfect, it’s easier to let yourself be imperfect, too.
Every time you call out, you’re a little less alone — I want to make the process easier for you
Keywords: anxiety , bipolar disorder , depression , inspiration , Mental Health , mental illness , mentalhealth , mentalillness , obsessive compulsive disorder , ocd , postaday , postaweek , uncustomaryhousewifeblog
The resources in this post are ordered by how frequently their keywords are searched on my blog and how frequently people contact me for certain resources. Most of these resources are based in the United States.
https://uncustomaryhousewife.com/2020/03/03/mental-health-crisis-lines-and-communities




